Gary's Insight: Breaking Free from Stagnation

Five years ago, Gary spoke with a young woman named Taylor, who felt stuck and aspired to create her personal brand while aiming to become a millionaire by the age of 25. During their conversation, Taylor admitted to spending countless hours on Instagram, admiring celebrities like the Kardashians, and wishing for a similar lifestyle.

Gary’s response was profound:

"Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has is taking away from time that you could create something for yourself."

This revelation struck me deeply. I, too, have fallen into the trap of scrolling through social media, longing for a life filled with adventure and gourmet meals. But the truth is, if I desire that kind of life, I need to work for it instead of wishing for it.

Although I've always prided myself on my work ethic, Gary’s conversation with Taylor served as a crucial wake-up call. The more time I squander on my phone, the less I engage in life to its fullest. It’s disappointing that I didn’t grasp this sooner, but now I’m determined to share this insight with others, so they can avoid my missteps.

The Illusion of Instant Gratification

Gary also addressed a prevalent issue in our society: the desire for quick success. Today’s world offers little patience, likely fueled by the rapid pace of technology and conveniences like Grubhub and Uber. Taylor expressed her goal of becoming a millionaire by 25, to which Gary offered a different perspective:

"Wouldn't you rather guarantee millionairship by 36 by doing long-term marathon running versus doing a bunch of bullshit sprints that guarantees never having it?"

This message resonated with me as well. I’ve set a personal goal to achieve millionaire status by 30, but why the rush? Life is a long journey, and once I hit that milestone, what’s next? I’d rather relish the journey along the way.

Gary encouraged Taylor to appreciate the grind:

"Taylor, you need to start lovin' the process, and the work, and the grind. You need to start respecting people that are like sleeping with like four roommates and buying their t-shirts at Walmart."

Currently, I cherish the process I’m on. I’m not fixated on gaining thousands of followers or becoming the next big writer. I’m enjoying the experience as it unfolds. I’ll reach my destination in due time, and that’s where patience plays a vital role.

For instance, Gary has a dream of owning the New York Jets one day. When asked about the timeline, he replies, "20 years." He wants to savor the journey as much as the end goal. I share that sentiment; we can all set goals, but enjoying the process is essential.

Closing Reflections

In today’s fast-paced world, it's easy to overwhelm ourselves with thoughts about achieving too much in a short time. However, life is a journey, and everything we aspire to is part of that process. We must learn to embrace the grind.

That’s the mindset I’m adopting for my life goals. After reflecting on this conversation, I feel motivated to take life one step at a time. Slow and steady truly wins the race.

Noah Nelson is a senior at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, majoring in journalism with minors in political science and history. He serves as a senior columnist for The Daily Illini, writes on Medium, and hosts his blog called Nothing But Noah. His first book, "Life: A Collection of Short Stories," is available now on Amazon. Interested in contributing? You can write for Medium as well!

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