What to do about a narcissist

Narcissistic personality disorder is a fascinating topic. If you know a narcissist, reading about it will feel like all the pieces of a really difficult 1,000 piece puzzle suddenly slotting neatly together. Ignoring red flags is typical of empaths who fall for narcissists, so I thought it might be helpful to write about some of…

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If not now, then when? Wednesday wisdom from my oracle deck

There’s this song I love by a Cornish band (featuring Ben Howard) called ‘Portland’. It’s a beautiful song; if you’re into music that makes you feel all your feelings, I recommend finding it on YouTube or Spotify and having a listen. Mickey Smith’s voice is hard to decipher but there’s one lyric that stands out,…

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A marriage poem

It’s not that I want to be like this.  It’s just that I exist in bits — cells I can’t quite contain.  And if I can’t, then who can? Once I was offered a ring and I thought, What would happen if I committed to him In a legal and public way?  Would I suddenly…

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